Independent....

Yes....Ladies independent is the best way to be. Get a solid education that will result in work that pays well, or get training that offers solid, marketable skills for work that pays well. Financial independence is vital. Learn about different types of investments and how to invest wisely. Being able to pay the rent is one thing. Building wealth is another. Know how to make the most of your appearance, because confidence comes from looking your best. You need to have confidence to be selective about which men you date or marry, and you need confidence to walk away if the relationship turns unhealthy. You need confidence to make your way in the work world; but, most of all, perhaps, you need confidence to - every once in a while - be brave enough to say, "Hey - I'm right, and the world is wrong."

Love on my Birthday

                                                                   (Lexus & Rubin)


I never would have thought I would find my true love on my birthday. Someone that I would never date. Trying something new was the best decision of my life. Us girls have this thing about going with a man thats their type, but we need to let that go and that would really help you get that prince charming you were looking for. But I must say this lover wasn't so perfect at the beginning and neither was I. We both made changes and learned something new everyday about each other. All of this made our relationship stronger and I love him more & more each day. I guarantee if you keep reading you would learn so much what not to do with a man.....